Obituary for Ruth Lehmann Bentley (Lehmann)
Dateline – Kennebunk
The family of Ruth Esther Lehmann Bentley would like to share that our matriarch and foundation, departed to be with her Heavenly Father on November 21, 2019, at Huntington Commons in Kennebunk.
Ruth was born April 26, 1925 at the parsonage in Crandon, Wisconsin to Rev. Phillip Lehmann and Elenore Grosnick Lehmann. She grew up in the German communities of Wisconsin, graduating from Reedsburg HS and the University of Wisconsin with a degree in social work. In 1949 she received her MSW from the George Warren Brown School of Social Work at Washington University in St Louis. After working several years, she married 1LT George N. Bentley on November 10, 1951 and they were blessed with 3 children, George Jr, Eleanor, and Anne.
As part of an Air Force family she lived, played church organ, and worked with children in Dayton, Ohio; Layton, Utah; Iwakuni and Tokyo, Japan; Cincinnati, Ohio; St Remy-sur-Avre, France; Topeka, Kansas; Washington, D.C.; and Madrid, Spain. In 1968 her husband became controller of Nasson College in Springvale, Maine, and she lived in Sanford for 29 years. Her focus in life in Sanford was family, church, and children. While there she worked as a social worker for Headstart, the Sanford School District, and Sweetser. She later volunteered at Sweetser in group homes and the crisis center until she turned 92. In 1997 she moved to her son’s house in Kennebunkport where she resided until hospitalization this summer. Her later years were spent volunteering, traveling to visit far flung family and friends, and supporting Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Kennebunk where she was a member for 45 years and the organist for 25 years. Her passions then, as always, were family and friends, classical and sacred music, especially JS Bach, and helping children, teenagers, and adults with mental and behavioral issues. She also served on the boards of York County United Way, Southern Maine Medical, and Sweetser, and was involved in refugee support.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband George in 1991, her parents, sister Doris Urban of Watertown, brother Dr. Arnold Lehmann of Northwestern College in Watertown WI, and Dr. Winfred Lehmann of the University of Texas in Austin.
She is survived by her son COL George Bentley Jr (USAFR), daughters, Eleanor (Gordon) Merrick, and Anne (Fred) Fell; grandchildren George III, Carsten, Thea, and Bjorn Bentley, Jessie (Tom) Herling, Gordon (Jenna) Merrick, and Connor Fell; and great-grandchildren Aiden, Sianna, Eben, and Colin Herling; and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Collectively we were blessed to have had you so long, and thankful you told us all that it was time for you to be with your Heavenly Father.
In lieu of flowers she desired donations to: Sweetser, Development Office – J2, 50 Moody Street, Saco, Maine 04072; or the Brown School of Washington University, One Brookings Drive, St. Louis, MO 63130; or Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 2 Lord Street, Kennebunk, ME 04043. As one who was also very generous, she would encourage giving to wherever it is needed.
Visiting hours will be on Saturday, December 7, 2019 from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, Kennebunk, followed by a Funeral Service at 12:00 noon at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 2 Lord Street, Kennebunk. A luncheon/ reception will be held at the church following the service. Burial will be at a later date, joining her husband in Arlington National Cemetery.
Gib Gott Ehre und habe ein grosszugigies Herz.
To share a memory or leave a message of condolence, please visit Ruth’s Book of Memories Page at www.bibberfuneral.com.
Arrangements are in care of Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, Kennebunk, ME 04043.
The family of Ruth Esther Lehmann Bentley would like to share that our matriarch and foundation, departed to be with her Heavenly Father on November 21, 2019, at Huntington Commons in Kennebunk.
Ruth was born April 26, 1925 at the parsonage in Crandon, Wisconsin to Rev. Phillip Lehmann and Elenore Grosnick Lehmann. She grew up in the German communities of Wisconsin, graduating from Reedsburg HS and the University of Wisconsin with a degree in social work. In 1949 she received her MSW from the George Warren Brown School of Social Work at Washington University in St Louis. After working several years, she married 1LT George N. Bentley on November 10, 1951 and they were blessed with 3 children, George Jr, Eleanor, and Anne.
As part of an Air Force family she lived, played church organ, and worked with children in Dayton, Ohio; Layton, Utah; Iwakuni and Tokyo, Japan; Cincinnati, Ohio; St Remy-sur-Avre, France; Topeka, Kansas; Washington, D.C.; and Madrid, Spain. In 1968 her husband became controller of Nasson College in Springvale, Maine, and she lived in Sanford for 29 years. Her focus in life in Sanford was family, church, and children. While there she worked as a social worker for Headstart, the Sanford School District, and Sweetser. She later volunteered at Sweetser in group homes and the crisis center until she turned 92. In 1997 she moved to her son’s house in Kennebunkport where she resided until hospitalization this summer. Her later years were spent volunteering, traveling to visit far flung family and friends, and supporting Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Kennebunk where she was a member for 45 years and the organist for 25 years. Her passions then, as always, were family and friends, classical and sacred music, especially JS Bach, and helping children, teenagers, and adults with mental and behavioral issues. She also served on the boards of York County United Way, Southern Maine Medical, and Sweetser, and was involved in refugee support.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband George in 1991, her parents, sister Doris Urban of Watertown, brother Dr. Arnold Lehmann of Northwestern College in Watertown WI, and Dr. Winfred Lehmann of the University of Texas in Austin.
She is survived by her son COL George Bentley Jr (USAFR), daughters, Eleanor (Gordon) Merrick, and Anne (Fred) Fell; grandchildren George III, Carsten, Thea, and Bjorn Bentley, Jessie (Tom) Herling, Gordon (Jenna) Merrick, and Connor Fell; and great-grandchildren Aiden, Sianna, Eben, and Colin Herling; and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Collectively we were blessed to have had you so long, and thankful you told us all that it was time for you to be with your Heavenly Father.
In lieu of flowers she desired donations to: Sweetser, Development Office – J2, 50 Moody Street, Saco, Maine 04072; or the Brown School of Washington University, One Brookings Drive, St. Louis, MO 63130; or Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 2 Lord Street, Kennebunk, ME 04043. As one who was also very generous, she would encourage giving to wherever it is needed.
Visiting hours will be on Saturday, December 7, 2019 from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, Kennebunk, followed by a Funeral Service at 12:00 noon at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 2 Lord Street, Kennebunk. A luncheon/ reception will be held at the church following the service. Burial will be at a later date, joining her husband in Arlington National Cemetery.
Gib Gott Ehre und habe ein grosszugigies Herz.
To share a memory or leave a message of condolence, please visit Ruth’s Book of Memories Page at www.bibberfuneral.com.
Arrangements are in care of Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, Kennebunk, ME 04043.